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Nov 2025
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Episode 447: Do Sex Toys Ruin Sex? Myth ...

DR. JUSTIN LEHMILLER
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Have you ever heard that vibrators will desensitize you and ruin partnered sex forever? That sex toys are just for women, singles, or kinky folks? Or that if you need a toy, something must be wrong with your sex life or relationship? These are common beliefs, but they’re not grounded in reality. So let’s set the record straight. My guest is Venu ... Show More
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