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Nov 6
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Obedience and Martyrs: What Strength Rea...

The Catholic Man Show
About this episode

Opening: Setting the Record Straight

No, The Catholic Man Show isn’t joining The Daily Wire. A sincere congrats to Matt Fradd on taking Pints With Aquinas to a bigger platform—and a case for celebrating a brother’s success without the cynicism.

Why Moves Like This Matter

Media realities, families to provide for, and why “selling out” is usually just a lazy take. Bigger reach can mean more souls reached—full stop.

Pilgrimage Debrief: Rome, Florence, and Awe

  • Florence surprises: the David, the Medici footprint, and why the city stole the show.
  • Rome moments: St. Mary Major, the House of Loreto, and the joy of praying where the Holy Family lived.
  • Padre Pio: devotion, controversy, and a frank take on the modern shrine aesthetic.

A Feast-Day Field Note

St. Hubert, patron of hunters, meets a proud dad moment: a 12-year-old’s first solo hunt, patience under pressure, and why rites of passage matter for boys.

Main Topic: Obedience Without Caricature

  • Aquinas on obedience: not the greatest virtue (charity is), but among the highest of the moral virtues because it orders us to the good.
  • Catechism on authority (cf. 1897ff): authority is legitimate when it seeks the common good and respects moral law; unjust commands do not bind.
  • Three “levels” of obedience
  • Modern resistance to authority vs. Christian freedom: obedience is not blind; it’s charity and justice in action.

Socrates, the Coliseum, and Costly Witness

A lively back-and-forth: unjust sentences, martyrdom, and whether courage sometimes looks like staying put.

Fatherhood and the Pattern of Obedience

  • Children learn reverence for God’s authority by seeing Dad obey the Church, pray when he doesn’t “feel like it,” and submit his will to the good.
  • House rules and spiritual rule: why outside authority often works better than self-made resolutions.

Community Corner

Thanks to patrons, cookies, and a few inside-baseball notes about keeping a niche Catholic show on the air without taking a dime personally.

Key Takeaways

  • Celebrate good work when Catholic creators get a larger platform.
  • Obedience isn’t weakness; it’s strength directed toward the highest good.
  • Legitimate authority deserves assent; unjust commands do not.
  • Fathers model obedience that forms a family’s conscience.
  • Pilgrimage sharpens conviction—beauty and history catechize the heart.

Mentioned in the Episode

  • St. Thomas Aquinas: Summa Theologiae, II–II, q.104 (obedience).
  • Catechism of the Catholic Church: on authority and the common good (around 1897–1904).
  • St. Hubert: patron saint of hunters.
  • Padre Pio: witness of obedience amid misunderstanding.
  • House of Loreto, St. Mary Major, Florence’s David: moments where beauty meets belief.

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