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Oct 2025
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Make Friends With Death to Live a Better...

THE ART OF MANLINESS
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We live in a culture that does everything it can to keep death at a distance. We hide it behind hospital curtains, euphemize it in conversation, and hustle through grief like it's just another item on the to-do list. We don't want death to get in the way of living.But my guest would say that making friends with death is the key to fully embracing life. Joann ... Show More
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