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Oct 24
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[ISBW] Exploring Romance and Reality in ...

Mur Lafferty
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"You should be writing, because that's the only thing that ultimately you can have
even a hope of controlling."
~Valerie Valdes

Welcome back to the talented Valerie Valdes, also known as Lia Amador! We are here to launch her newest book, a fantasy rom-com titled Witch You Wood. We talk magical reality shows, romance, and tropes. We also get real about the struggles that persist even after being published.

Valerie discusses her experiences with self-doubt and how she manages to push through these challenges. We also explore the nuances of writing romance, the balance between subtlety and straightforwardness, and the significance of knowing your audience.

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October 23, 2025 | Season 21 Ep 19 | murverse.com
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