I Want to Be Chill About Sex but I Liter...

Before disappearing for summer, I wanted to leave you with one final thought: I think I'm tired of my own narrative.In this episode, we're talking about sobriety, growing pains, outgrowing old versions of ourselves, and why I think I've reached the point where I need fewer revela ... Show More

I met someone in LA and immediately found myself doing what so many of us do: trying to prove I was worth getting to know.In this episode, we're talking about validation, attention, self-worth, and why one person's indifference can sometimes outweigh the appreciation of hundreds ... Show More

a little life update from california.in this episode, i share a realization i've been having about how my first relationship - and the abuse that existed within it - may have shaped my relationship to intimacy in ways i didn't fully understand until now.we also talk about procras ... Show More

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have a problem with how men see me. I was married for 25 years and I got divorced three years ago and decided to move to another state for a clean slate. I’m not looking for a serious relationship right now, I want to enjoy being single a while, but I wo ... Show More

As much as we’d like sex to be seamlessly hot all the time, sometimes…it gets a little awkward. Too much teeth during a blowjob. An erection that won’t last. Someone farts! It happens - and when it does, it can seriously derail the mood. But does it have to? I’m of the opinion th ... Show More

Dear Steve and Shirley, I've been listening for years and decided it was time for me to get some advice. I'm a young brother in my early 40s. I have a great career and two sons that are grown. I'm a bit of a homebody so I don't hang out much and I've never liked hanging out in cl ... Show More

Dear Steve and Miss strawberry. I have been dating my boyfriend for over a year and I love him so much. We hardly ever argue or fight because we live an hour away from each other so when we are together we make the best of our time. We do everything together except one big thing ... Show More

<p>Honestly, this is an episode I wish I had in my early 20’s. I wish someone had talked to be about connecting to my sexuality, because I was more into the performance of sex.  I want you to know how good you can feel and what it feels like to be sexy.  So, I’m encouraging you t ... Show More

My husband and I have been married for 21 years. When we first met, we were intimate a couple of times, but we decided not to have any more sex until we were married.  Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy ... Show More

Stop over complicating sex. 

<p>When we like someone, it’s tempting to move fast, let our emotions take over, and simply do what feels good. But in this frenzy of excitement, we can inadvertently end up on a path we don’t want to be on… In this new episode, I answer a question from someone who didn’t want to ... Show More

On this episode we are answering the question: How do I approach the subject of wanting to have sex to my exhausted wife? My wife is exhausted, up with the kids, keeping the house clean, etc. How can I approach the topic of wanting to have sex with her in the midst of all of this ... Show More

<p>Casual sex typically isn't about love. But what if it's not even about lust? Sociologist <a href="https://liberalarts.tulane.edu/departments/sociology/people/lisa-wade">Lisa Wade</a> studies "hookup culture," and believes the rules and expectations around sex and relationships ... Show More