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Finding My Husband: Dating an Avoidant -...

Violet Benson
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The trip ended, the lessons didn’t.

In Part 2 of Finding My Husband: Vegas, I’m talking about the real game:

  • how to keep him hooked without losing yourself
  • Why even healthy love will still drive you a little insane sometimes
  • How to self-regulate before you self-sabotage
  • From overthinking to attachment theory
  • Everything you need to know about dating an avoidant
  • And how to actually win an avoidant over



(dating podcast • attachment styles • relationship advice • how to love an avoidant • female-hosted podcast)

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