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Faith Over Feelings (Guest: Johanna King...

LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD
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Ever wondered if you're sabotaging your own love story? In this raw and revealing episode, host Laterras R. Whitfield sits down with Johanna King, a woman whose journey from nightclub bottle service to street evangelist showcases the transformative power of faith and self-discovery.

Johanna candidly shares her experiences with heartbreak, including a whirlwind 19-day engagement that ended in chaos, and her pattern of friend-zoning the very man who might be her husband. Through tears and laughter, she reveals how past trauma, including two abortions, shaped her approach to relationships and how God's healing power allowed her to break destructive patterns.

## Timestamps and Key Takeaways:
- **7:05** - Johanna opens up about her abortion experiences and how faith helped her heal from trauma
- **15:30** - The red flags she ignored in a previous relationship, including unhealthy boundaries with an ex
- **22:15** - Her 19-day engagement disaster and the importance of proper relationship order
- **32:40** - The pattern of returning to a "sweet" man she wasn't initially attracted to
- **39:25** - How street evangelism became her ministry and passion
- **43:18** - The growth of attraction in her current relationship and learning to value character over status

This episode is a masterclass in discernment, showing how we often chase what's toxic while friend-zoning what's healthy. Johanna's story reminds us that sometimes what we think we want isn't what God knows we need.

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