Being nice won’t save you — especially in conflict. Too often, we think if we’re agreeable enough, people will treat us better or listen more. But that’s not how it works. In this episode, I talk about why “nice” people often get steamrolled in difficult conversations, the difference between being nice and being respectful, and how respectful firmness is act ... Show More
Apr 21
3 Ways You’re Weakening Your Message Without Knowing It
Join me on Supercast for ad-free episodes, bonus content, and AMAs: https://jefferson.supercast.com/ There are three mistakes I see people make in conversations every single day—and they’re quietly destroying relationships without you realizing it. In this episode, I break down w ... Show More
23m 1s
Apr 14
Stop Letting Emotions Make Decisions with Emma Grede
Join me on Supercast for ad-free episodes, bonus content, and AMAs: https://jefferson.supercast.com/ There’s a version of you that keeps waiting—for permission, for clarity, for someone to hand you the opportunity. In this conversation, I sit down with Emma Grede to challenge tha ... Show More
54m 1s
Apr 7
3 Steps to Say the Hard Thing
Join me on Supercast for ad-free episodes, bonus content, and monthly AMAs: https://jefferson.supercast.com/ There’s a conversation you’ve been avoiding—and it’s already costing you more than you think. In this episode, I’m breaking down why not saying the hard thing is shaping ... Show More
21m 50s
Mar 2025
Expanded Love: The New Paradigm of Dating, Relationships & Life!
The first episode of Season 3 of The New Truth Podcast with Kate! If you are feeling like any facet of your life is out of alignment, this episode is for you! It is an invitation to take full responsibility for your truths, your life, your relationships and also will illuminate a ... Show More
35m 30s
Oct 2023
"It's Always F*cking Safety!" (Q&A Session)
<p>I get together with another Codependency Alchemy member to talk about fears around something we don't completely understand, and how it always's comes back to safety. We talk about embracing sexuality, fears around being sexualized, being in a state of fear, and more ... Show More
35m 14s
Dec 2024
The Truth about Mr. Darcy + Nonviolent Communication Tips for Conflict Resolution
<p>Mr. Darcy has been on my mind this week. Not because he’s the fantasy of so many women, but because I finally read <em>Pride and Prejudice</em>, and discovered something shocking (to me) about him. </p><p><br/></p><p>I’d always thought of Mr. Darcy as this tall, brooding, misu ... Show More
15m 9s
Sep 2025
How to Stop Being Too Nice to People
Have you ever found yourself saying yes when you really wanted to say no? In this solo episode, Jake and Damian tackle a challenge many of us face, being “too nice” at the expense of ourselves. They unpack the difference between being nice and being kind, showing why true kindnes ... Show More
27m 31s
Oct 2025
The Chaos of Influencer Friendships (and How to Actually Be a Good Friend)
It’s time to spill some tea. Dani’s getting real about influencer friendships — the good, the bad, and the ones that didn’t last. We talk about what makes a real friend, how to navigate drama, and the pressure that comes with public relationships. Plus, we break down the Super Bo ... Show More
1h 16m
Aug 2025
[339] How to Ask for Help at Work (Without Feeling Embarrassed)
In this episode, I talk about how to ask for help at work in English - without feeling embarrassed or unprofessional. I’ll share some useful workplace phrases you can use right away, plus a cheeky story about asking for help with the office printer. By the end, you’ll know how to ... Show More
6m 29s