Being nice won’t save you — especially in conflict. Too often, we think if we’re agreeable enough, people will treat us better or listen more. But that’s not how it works. In this episode, I talk about why “nice” people often get steamrolled in difficult conversations, the difference between being nice and being respectful, and how respectful firmness is act ... Show More
Oct 2
How to Handle Someone You Disagree With ft. Tim Tebow
What do you do when people criticize you, misunderstand you, or challenge what you believe? Tim Tebow joins me for a conversation about what it really means to stand your ground without losing respect for the person across from you. We talk about handling criticism, knowing when ... Show More
1h 18m
Sep 29
Stop Absorbing Other People’s Chaos
How do you stay compassionate without getting pulled into someone else’s chaos? In this call-in episode, I answer questions about setting boundaries with people who create constant turmoil, dealing with difficult relationship dynamics, and protecting your peace without becoming c ... Show More
35m 2s
Apr 2025
#648: Being “Nice” Is Wrecking Your Confidence
We’re going to talk about the difference, why “being nice” is often a confidence trap, how to detox from people-pleasing, and how to step into strong, gracious, authentic kindness—without losing your softness, your generosity, or your beautiful heart.
This episode is for the ... Show More
26m 8s
Sep 2025
How to Stop Being Too Nice to People
Have you ever found yourself saying yes when you really wanted to say no? In this solo episode, Jake and Damian tackle a challenge many of us face, being “too nice” at the expense of ourselves. They unpack the difference between being nice and being kind, showing why true kindnes ... Show More
27m 31s
Feb 2025
How To Handle Difficult People & Take Back Your Peace and Power
<p>Today, you are getting research-backed strategies for handling difficult people. </p><p>In this episode, you will dive deep into how to respond to disrespect, gaslighting, and exactly what to say when someone tries to brush off their behavior with, “I was just joking.” </p><p> ... Show More
50m 21s
Apr 2025
Number 1 Communication Expert: Stop Doing this… People Will Like You More | Jefferson Fisher
In this episode, Jefferson Fisher discusses the nuances of toxic behavior, communication, self-awareness, and emotional intelligence. He shares insights on how to handle difficult conversations and strategies for standing up for oneself without escalating conflicts. Codie and Jef ... Show More
1h 44m