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Oct 6
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Courtroom Strategies to Transform Your E...

Gary Miles
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An experience that revealed how the greatest battle for most lawyers isn’t fought in the courtroom, but in their own minds.


Despite years of achievement, Gary Miles realized that self-doubt and over-preparation often rob attorneys of the confidence they’ve already earned. Gary unpacks the difference between faking confidence and building it authentically through preparation, presence, and belief in oneself. From body posture and eye contact to pacing and tone, listen for practical tips that help lawyers project calm authority and earn trust.


Beyond trial work, these same habits strengthen client relationships, improve decision-making, and reduce burnout. By learning to shift from fear to curiosity, lawyers can turn pressure into clarity and perform at their best. Ultimately, this episode is a masterclass in transforming anxiety into authentic confidence.


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