Iâm celebrating three years of the podcast and 3 million downloads by sharing the 10 biggest lessons Iâve learned from 200 episodes!!! THANK YOU FOR BEING HERE đ
When I started this show in my kitchen in Seattle, I never imagined Iâd be talking to hundreds of thousands of daters all over the world. Today, Iâm reflecting on the advice that comes up again an ... Show More
Nov 10
210. Five Communication Skills I Wish I'd Practiced Before Meeting The One
Everyone says communication is key, but what does good communication actually look like?Iâm sharing the five most impactful communication tools Iâve learned so you can build trust, repair faster, and stay on the same team when things get hard.Thanks to our partners:AG1: Go to dri ... Show More
38m 31s
Nov 7
209. Why Self-Trust Is the Key to Feeling Safe in Love w/ Sarah Yudkin
Are you overthinking your relationship? Do you ever wonder if itâs love or just anxiety?In this episode, I share my journey from relationship anxiety to building true inner safety and self-trust. I'm joined by Sarah Yudkin, creator of You Love and You Learn, to explore releasing ... Show More
53m 39s
Nov 4
208. Top 5 Tips For Dating When Your Biological Clock Is Ticking
If your biological clock is ticking and dating feels stressful, this episodeâs for you! I share real-life dating advice and relationship tips for managing timelines, trusting the process, and a reminder that love doesnât need to follow a timeline.Episodes mentioned:Episode 94 â A ... Show More
39m 14s
May 2025
How to Make Them CHASE YOU Without Playing Games | Matt Monday
<p>The rules of modern dating can feel so confusing. You donât know how much texting is too much, how to make the first move, or whether to keep trying if their interest is hot and cold.</p><p>In this weekâs video, I sat down with bestselling author Jay Shetty for his On Purpose ... Show More
20m 3s
Oct 3
How to Make Them Call and Text You Every Day | Rewind
What do you do when someone is great on dates but goes radio silent in between? With only three dates in, itâs easy to feel confused and crave clarity, but early dating rarely provides the closure we seek. Instead of getting stuck in overanalyzing their behavior, we explore how t ... Show More
24m 36s
Mar 2025
How to Make Them CHASE YOU Without âPlaying It Coolâ | Rewind
<p>Weâve all been told that we should never come on too strong, and that playing it cool is the best way to get someone interested. But how much interest is the right amount to show in the early days of dating? If we show too much interest, we worry weâll lose all our âpower,â bu ... Show More
18m 39s
Sep 3
Jared Freid & Jordana Abraham: Dating App Burnout? Do THIS 30-Day Challenge to Stop Wasting Time and FINALLY Meet the Right Person
Are you making time for the kind of love you want? Do you feel like youâre ready to stop repeating old patterns? Today, Jay welcomes Jared Freid and Jordana Abraham, hosts of the hit dating podcast U Up?, for a candid, lighthearted look at modern love. Together with Jay, they unp ... Show More
1h 15m