Iâm celebrating three years of the podcast and 3 million downloads by sharing the 10 biggest lessons Iâve learned from 200 episodes!!! THANK YOU FOR BEING HERE đ
When I started this show in my kitchen in Seattle, I never imagined Iâd be talking to hundreds of thousands of daters all over the world. Today, Iâm reflecting on the advice that comes up again an ... Show More
Oct 7
201. Why Itâs So Hard to Walk Away (And How to Finally Do It)
In this episode, you'll learn how to know when to walk away in early dating vs. long-term relationships and why it's so difficult. Youâll get a simple mindset shift that makes the breakup decision stick, plus exact scripts to end it by text, phone, or in person without reopening ... Show More
40m 1s
Sep 26
198. When They Start Pulling Away Suddenly + 3 More Dating Dilemmas
In this episode, Iâm answering four of your real-life dating dilemmas! Weâre talking about what to do when someone says they need to âfind themselvesâ before committing, how to build emotional connection early on without scaring them off, and whether a partnerâs pre-trip freak-ou ... Show More
35m 50s
May 2025
(Matt Monday): How to Make Them CHASE YOU Without Playing Games
The rules of modern dating can feel so confusing. You donât know how much texting is too much, how to make the first move, or whether to keep trying if their interest is hot and cold. In this weekâs video, I sat down with bestselling author Jay Shetty for his On Purpose podcast t ... Show More
20m 4s
Mar 2025
(Rewind): How to Make Them CHASE YOU Without âPlaying It Coolâ
Weâve all been told that we should never come on too strong, and that playing it cool is the best way to get someone interested. But how much interest is the right amount to show in the early days of dating? If we show too much interest, we worry weâll lose all our âpower,â but i ... Show More
18m 40s
Sep 3
Jared Freid & Jordana Abraham: Dating App Burnout? Do THIS 30-Day Challenge to Stop Wasting Time and FINALLY Meet the Right Person
Are you making time for the kind of love you want? Do you feel like youâre ready to stop repeating old patterns? Today, Jay welcomes Jared Freid and Jordana Abraham, hosts of the hit dating podcast U Up?, for a candid, lighthearted look at modern love. Together with Jay, they unp ... Show More
1h 15m