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Oct 1
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Consequences vs. Punishments: Why Kids N...

Albiona Rakipi
About this episode
In this solo episode of The Parenting Reframe, I tackle one of the most common questions I get from parents: What’s the difference between consequences and punishments? Parents often use these terms interchangeably, but they couldn’t be more different. Consequences help kids learn accountability and build resilience, while punishments often come from reacti ... Show More
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