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Aug 28
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UPDATES To Shandies' Questions, Volume 6...

Sharleen Joynt & Andy Levine
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IT'S TIME, SHANDIES!!! Today's the day for volume 6 of our very special biannual UPDATES! When listening to our caller episodes and Q&As, if you find yourself wondering "where are they now?", today is all about filling in those blanks!


We called out for updates from our question-asking Shandies and many were kind enough to provide their subsequent chapters, the good and the bad! Come join us in the living room where we're on the edge of our seats!




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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

2:47 - Ep 45, Q2: “Can A Man Not Be Quite Ready For A Committed Relationship But Have Full Intention To Get There?”

9:51 - Ep 71, Q5: “Should I Re-Pursue My Former High-Paying Career At The Cost Of My Husband’s?”

18:17 - Ep 274, Q2: “My Partner Goes Out Partying Late Every Weekend—Am I Being Disrespected?”

28:47 - Ep 277, Q3: “My Friend Is Married To My Narcissist Ex And I Feel Guilty She’s Ended Up With Him—Help!”

31:59 - Ep 279, Caller Lauren: “Your Situationship Is Too Comfortable”

39:37 - Ep 281, Q2: “How Should I Handle My Toxic Ex-Worker And Her Gossip?”

47:58 - Ep 321, Q2: “AITA If I Give My Friend Unsolicited Career Plan Advice?”

50:04 - Ep 321, Q4: “I Vented About My Sister In My Journal & She Found And Read It—Help!”
54:47 - Ep 346, Q5: “How Do I Befriend My Online Match Turned Coworker?”

1:01:33 - Ep 351, Q3: “My Friend Owes Me $1000 And Is Now Ghosting Me—Help!”

1:10:37 - Ep 383, Caller Sarah: “How Do I Regain The Power In My Open Relationship?”



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