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Aug 2025
41m 52s

Why “boy" culture is creating a crisis o...

AMERICAN PSYCHOLOGICAL ASSOCIATION
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Many boys form deep friendships in childhood. But as they become teens, they report fewer close, rich friendships. Niobe Way, PhD, author of “Rebels With a Cause: Reimagining Boys, Ourselves and Our Culture,” discusses “boy" culture; why boys are naturally as emotionally intelligent as girls; the societal pressures that lead to disconnection among boys as th ... Show More
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