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160 | Why Do We Stay in Toxic Relationsh...

LINDSEY MAESTAS
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When country artist Stephanie Quayle lost her boyfriend in a tragic plane crash, she thought the grief would be the hardest part.

But nothing prepared her for the heartbreak of learning at his funeral that she wasn’t the only woman in his life. That revelation shattered her world, and forced her to reckon with the truth: the relationship had been toxic from the very beginning.

In this powerful episode, Stephanie asks the question, "When I was in these two toxic relationships, how did I feel about myself?" "Why didn't I ever question myself?" "Why did I allow this for myself?"

She opens up about her personal story of love, betrayal, and resilience and the importance of who you spend your time with. Drawing from her book: Why Do We Stay?, she shares the emotional and psychological journey of recognizing abuse, escaping manipulation, and reclaiming her freedom.

She’s joined by psychologist and narcissism expert Dr. W. Keith Campbell, who helps unpack the red flags of toxic relationships, including narcissism and gaslighting.

Whether you’re questioning your current relationship or healing from the past, this episode will offer insight, hope, and a way forward.

Follow Stephanie Quayle on Instagram @stephaniequayle
Follow along with Lindsey on Instagram @livingeasywithlindsey

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