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Aug 2025
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Navigating Friendship Conflict

Thrive Therapy - Colter Bloxom, Lauren Mokarry, and Cayla Bozovich
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This episode dives into the often-overlooked complexities of friendship conflict and breakups, highlighting that friendships can be just as emotionally significant—and challenging—as romantic relationships. The hosts discuss common causes of tension, from mismatched expectations and life transitions to breaches of trust, unmet needs, and changes in values. T ... Show More
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