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Aug 19
22m 32s

222. The Expectation Trap: Why We Drift ...

Monica Berg and Michael Berg
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Unrealistic and unspoken expectations are like invisible wedges quietly pushing us apart from the people we love most. In this episode, we explore why it’s so important to bring expectations into the light and talk about them openly. Relationships thrive when partners can share not only what they need now, but also who they’re becoming and where they hope to go. The key is staying connected through those changes, rather than being blindsided by them. We’ll also unpack how unspoken expectations can breed resentment and how to spot shifts in energy before unspoken expectations become full-blown conflicts.

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