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Aug 15
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Ghosting, Gaslighting, and Gay Bars (w/ ...

Headgum & Nicole Byer
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For Roz Hernandez, dating as a sober, trans woman comedian is a trifecta of difficulty - and finding love hasn’t been easy. She tells Nicole about going to 4 different Etsy psychics to sketch her future husband, using Grindr to find dates willing to explore haunted places, and the hookup stories that came from visiting 45 gay bars across the country. She ope ... Show More
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