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Aug 11
1h 14m

Relationship Red Flags with Kait and JJ ...

Madison Prewett Troutt
About this episode

Welcome back to Stay True Podcast! This week, Madi and Grant are joined by Kait and JJ Tomlin—relationship coaches, podcast hosts, and powerful voices on Christian dating—for a fun and honest conversation about how to date God’s way in a world that often gets it wrong. If you want to know if you're ready to date, what to actually look for in a godly spouse, and the red flags you can’t afford to ignore, then this episode is for YOU! This episode covers how to date with purpose, why character matters more than chemistry, and how to walk in confidence when it comes to relationships. Whether you're single, dating, or somewhere in between, this episode will give you truth, clarity, and hope to pursue love the way God intended.
As always, stay you and stay true!

Questions/topics discussed and answered:
- What is your dating personality type?
- Red flags to watch out for
- How to know if you are ready to start dating
- What to look for in a spouse
- Can you pray together in dating?
- Can a girl pursue a guy?

Helpful Resources:
Heart of Dating’s Dating Personality Quiz:https://www.heartofdating.com/quiz
The Love Everybody Wants by Madison Prewett Troutt: https://a.co/d/36EkEhT
Dare To Be True: Defeat The Lies That Bind You and Live Out The Truth That Frees You by Madison Prewett Troutt: https://a.co/d/gdfpHX5
Stay True Website: https://www.staytruepodcast.com
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