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Aug 10
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344. Stressed Leader Strategies to Stay ...

Joshua Stamper
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Superintendent and author Dr. Dan Stecken joins me to share his personal journey through burnout and the inspiration behind his book Stressed Leaders: Stay in the Game. In this candid conversation, we discuss why leaders aren’t broken—they’re burned out—and how that critical distinction can reshape how we approach leadership, recovery, and sustainability.

Dr. Stecken reveals the moment he realized his leadership approach was unsustainable, the mindset shifts and boundaries that help leaders protect their well-being, and the daily habits that fuel long-term success without sacrificing purpose. We also explore the Stressed Leaders movement and the supportive community he’s building for leaders who want to thrive instead of simply endure.

If you’re feeling the weight of leadership, this episode offers practical strategies, renewed perspective, and the encouragement you need to stay in the game.

About Dan Stecken: Dan Stecken is the District Superintendent of Seneca Township High School in North Central Illinois. He is known for implementing "The Seneca Way" and achieving the "Great Place to Work" certification for his district. Stecken also authored "A Stressed Leaders Journey, the Rookie's Guide to Being a School District Superintendent" and hosts a weekly newsletter with the same title. He created the Stressed Leaders Conference and is dedicated to supporting leaders who are experiencing burnout.  Beyond his work in education, Stecken has also focused on his own well-being, experiencing a health scare and prioritizing work-life balance after noticing the challenges other leaders faced. He has lost over 100 pounds, and his journey has inspired him to create the Stressed Leaders Conference and community to support other leaders. His work emphasizes the importance of community, accountability, and finding purpose in leadership roles.  Follow Dan Stecken
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