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Aug 6
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Ultimatum Queer Love S2 Recap

Kirk Honda
About this episode
Rebeccasode!  We review Queer Love Season 2.

This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month.

00:00 Did Rebecca like S2? 
07:49 Would a different host be better?
14:52 Defining sex & setting boundaries
23:33 Who would Rebecca be friends with in the cast? 
58:12 Sex positive podcast recommendation
1:00:03 Final thoughts
1:09:15 What is compursion?

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August 6, 2025

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