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Aug 6
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Balancing Life's Demands - How to Put Fi...

Living on the Edge
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Is your “to-do” list too long? Do you have too many people wanting your attention? If you’re struggling to keep all the balls in the air, join Chip as he shares how you can put first things first.

Three reasons why most of us live with two sets of priorities:

  1. We are DECEIVED. We honestly don't see the discrepancy between what we think and say, and how we actually live.
  2. We are AFRAID. Though we long to put "first things first," we simply do not believe that God will supply our needs if we give Him the first portion of our time, our lives, and our money.
  3. We have FAILED repeatedly. Our sincere and honest efforts to put "first things first" in the past lasted only a short time and ended with frustration and disillusionment with ourselves.

So, what’s the “Missing Ingredient” to living out our priorities?

  • It's a RARELY USED word.
  • It's a FRUIT of the Spirit.
  • It comes to us by GRACE.
  • We ADMIRE it in others.
  • It's ESSENTIAL for putting "first things first."

The Word = DISCIPLINE / SELF CONTROL

Definition: Discipline is doing what needs to be done when it needs to be done.

The Dynamics of Biblical Discipline Can Be Summed Up in 2 Words:

  • DELAYED GRATIFICATION - Hebrews 12:11

The Method of Developing Biblical Discipline Can Be Summed Up in 3 Words:

  • ADVANCED DECISION-MAKING - 1 Corinthians 9:24-27

How Does It Work?

  1. Advanced Decision Making begins with CLEAR–CUT OBJECTIVES.
  2. Advanced Decision Making is reinforced by REWARDING ALONG the WAY.
  3. Advanced Decision Making becomes a personal conviction when you PONDER the CONSEQUENCES.

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