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Aug 5
32m 50s

From Believing to Achieving

Kim Meninger
About this episode

In this episode of The Impostor Syndrome Files, we explore how to bridge the gap between believing and achieving and what it really takes to pursue your potential, even when the path ahead is unclear. My guest this week is Adam Haston, entrepreneur and author of The Wonder Effect.

Together, we unpack the importance of believing in yourself, recognizing limiting assumptions and developing a practical framework to move from believing to achieving. Adam shares his perspective on why we must first shed the false narratives we’ve absorbed from others—teachers, advisors, even well-meaning mentors—so we can reconnect with our authentic vision and values.

We also talk about why mindset and strategy matter more than rigid tactics when it comes to change, how to break through the fear of not knowing what you want by paying attention to the everyday clues that already surround you, and the value of seeking advice from people just a few steps ahead of you—and how to balance guidance with your own inner compass.
Whether you’re at a crossroads or simply curious about what’s next, this episode offers a refreshingly honest take on how to take action, one small step at a time.

About My Guest
Adam J. Haston, author of The Wonder Effect, is an entrepreneur, educator, and community leader dedicated to helping others unlock their potential. The founder and CEO of Haston Equity Group, a financial and real estate firm, he combines business acumen with a passion for personal growth.

A former rabbi and director of programming at Chabad of Greater New Haven, Haston learned that transformation begins with truly listening. He has mentored professionals, students, and entrepreneurs, guiding them through career transitions, personal challenges, and leadership development. He has led workshops on financial success, personal growth, and resilience. His philanthropic work includes fundraising for schools, synagogues, and the Friendship Circle, where he organized a charity climb of Mount Kilimanjaro. A lifelong adventurer, Haston has run the NYC Marathon and traveled the world, but his greatest journey is as a devoted husband to Esther and father to seven incredible children. You can learn more at www.adamhaston.com

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