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Mar 2025
27m 15s

why you fail to be perfect

the zurkie show
About this episode

I can't be perfect. it pains me because I want to be perfect.but as human beings, we are flawed.

what makes us so special is the way we deal with the mistakes we make on a day to day basis.

make mistakes, own up to them and try your best to be better. that's all you can ask of others, including yourself.

sending you lots of love and peaaaaaaaaaace⁠https://stan.store/thezurkieshow⁠

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