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Jul 2025
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The Impact Of Birth Order: What All Pare...

Nurtured First
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Are firstborns natural leaders, and the youngest the rebellious baby? Jess and Scott dismantle the popular—and surprisingly persistent—myths surrounding birth order. Scott shares fascinating research that reveals birth order's impact on personality and intelligence is almost non-existent. They explore the research on birth order and discuss the far more powerful forces that shape who our children become, including genetics, socioeconomic status, and most importantly, your parenting style. Tune in to free yourself from stereotypes and learn what truly matters in raising unique individuals.


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Editing by The Pod Cabin 

Artwork by Wallflower Studio 

Production by Nurtured First 


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