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Jul 15
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Anupam Kher On Modern Love, Jealousy, Re...

Raj Shamani
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(00:00) – Intro


(02:06) – Void of Not Seeing a Child Grow Up


(07:56) – Old Love vs Gen Z Love


(15:29) – How to Find the Right Person


(22:50) – How to Build a Long-Lasting Relationship


(24:30) – Why Today’s Generation Doesn’t Prioritise Building a Family


(27:19) – Why People Aren’t Satisfied with One Person


(31:07) – How to Find the Right Kind of Love in Today’s Generation


(35:02) – Right Time to Marry


(38:48) – His Biggest Dream


(45:44) – Why People Don’t Feel Optimistic Even When They Have Talent


(48:27) – Comparison & Jealousy


(53:30) – Father’s Memory


(54:54) – About His Acting School


(59:00) – Story of the Film Saaransh


(01:03:12) – Times He Lied in His Life


(01:05:01) – Insecurities


(01:06:32) – Misunderstood Anupam Kher


(01:08:12) – How He Wants Everyone to Remember Him


(01:09:15) – BTS


(01:09:53) – Outro



In today’s episode, we have Anupam Kher, actor, producer, and author, sharing his reflections on ageing, relationships, insecurity, and the cost of ambition. He opens up about the decision to not have children, the emotional complexity of solitude, and how different life feels as one grows older. We explore what it means to live with both gratitude and regret, and how personal choices are often shaped by timing and priorities.

We talk about the changing nature of love, why kindness should come before compatibility, and how the absence of innocence is affecting modern relationships. Anupam also shares his thoughts on insecurity in men, the burden of comparison, and how he’s turned failures into survival instincts.

In the final segment, he reflects on the fear of memory loss, how he’s misunderstood, and the one dream he still holds close. He shares lessons from his father, why he believes real people are finally being cast on screen, and what he wants to be remembered for.

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