Yesterday

It's Me, Tinx Live: My BF Got Drunk, and Ruined My Friends Wedding

I am back from my long holiday weekend in the Hamptons, ready to cover it all with you. One point of contention, why do I always get sick whenever I am excited for something? Does that ever happen to you? Then we take your calls including an embarrassing boyfriend at a wedding, t ... Show More

49m 4s

Jul 6

It's Me, Tinx (Almost) Live: Why Can't I Date Garret Graham from "Off Campus"?

I hope you all had an incredible holiday weekend, I know I did. I am off still but I have a brand new mailbag episode where I tackle imposter syndrome, comparison, and much more. I will be back LIVE on Wednesday, until then enjoy! Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm ... Show More

24m 54s

Jul 3

A Reminder Ahead of the Holiday to Not Be a Jerk ICYMI

It's the 4th of July weekend and I am out today, but I am playing you an older episode that I think is an incredible reminder before some fun with friends...DON'T BE A JERK! I have an all new mailbag episode for you Monday, until then have a safe and happy 4th! Hosted by Simpleca ... Show More

25m 14s

Dec 2023

He Can't Talk Without Touching Me

Dear Steve and Shirley. I met a man online and he's a decent guy with a good job and a great set of friends. We've gone on double dates with my friends and his friends, and I did that because that's how you get to really know a person. The drawback of it is that my friends also g ... Show More

13m 22s

Sep 2022

Should I Love Him or Leave Him

Dear Steve and Shirley, I met and older guy and I was attracted to him, but played hard to get. He begged me for a first date and I eventually agreed to go out with him. He asked to pick him up and I didn’t think much about it since his house was on the way to the restaurant. Wh ... Show More

13m 18s

Aug 2024

Second Date Update: Chefzoned

One of our listeners says he has a talent that makes him more attractive than 90% of guys, and he got a chance to show it off on his date. Was it too much for her to handle? See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

16m 58s

Jun 2024

I Had A Meet-Cute With A Man In Finance

It’s an extra special Sunday because we’re letting you in on some office goss. Divya, a Betches staff member, joins J&J for a debrief about her neighbor. She met a cute guy in her building during cuffing season and, at the time, Jordana warned her that dating a neighbor is a risk ... Show More

1h 12m

Sep 2025

Second Date Update Classics: Twitchers Not Tweakers + Lobster Lunges

Part 1 Is it a green flag or a red flag when your date brings BINOCULARS on a first date? Our listener on the phone today said it’s a GREEN FLAG and he’ll tell us more about their magical experience coming up.Part 2 The guy in today’s Second Date knew a WEIRD amount of personal i ... Show More

37m 4s

Jul 2023

He Jumped In Feet First

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 28 year old woman and I’ve been having bad luck on the dating scene. Finally, I met someone and thought he was great. Emotionally, he fulfilled my needs and he planned the best dates. We formed a bond over the fact that we were both tired of dating ... Show More

13m 8s

Sep 2025

Second Date Update Classics: Twitchers Not Tweakers + Lobster Lunges

Part 1 Is it a green flag or a red flag when your date brings BINOCULARS on a first date? Our listener on the phone today said it’s a GREEN FLAG and he’ll tell us more about their magical experience coming up.Part 2 The guy in today’s Second Date Update knew a WEIRD amount of per ... Show More

37m 4s

May 2024

I Fell In Love With The Cookie Monster

Dear Steve and Shirley, In 2017 I met a handsome man at a nail salon. He stared at me the entire time so I gave him my card as I left. He called and invited me to his apartment for dinner and we have been together since that night. He’s a big flirt and a bit too outgoing and it’s ... Show More

13 m

Oct 2025

Second Date Update Classics: I'm Onto You + Just A Little Short

Part 1 The woman on the phone today saw a cute guy and although her first move was UNORTHODOX… apparently it worked! Part 2 There’s a thin line between sharing and OVER-sharing. One of our listeners wishes she had learned that lesson BEFORE texting her guy after their date... the ... Show More

36m 51s

Oct 2025

Second Date Update Classics: I'm Onto You + Just A Little Short

Part 1 The woman on the phone today saw a cute guy and although her first move was UNORTHODOX… apparently it worked! Part 2 There’s a thin line between sharing and OVER-sharing. One of our listeners wishes she had learned that lesson BEFORE texting her guy after their date... the ... Show More

36m 42s

It's Me, Tinx Live: "If He Wanted to, He...