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Jul 2025
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It's Me, Tinx Live: "If He Wanted to, He...

Tinx
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Happy Monday everyone! Today I tell you about some great dates I went on with a guy who was weird at texting and couldn't hang well with my friends. My intuition was right about him, and if he wanted to really date me, he would. We also hear some Summer of Outside stories from boats in the Midwest and professional athlete flings in the Northeast. And lastly, ... Show More
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