A Note from James:

So Chef Curtis Duffy—he’s won Michelin Stars, a James Beard Award. He’s been on Netflix’s Iron Chef, was a judge on Top Chef season 21, and he’s even shown up in The Bear. He runs the Chicago restaurants Ever and Grace, and he wrote this incredible memoir called Fireproof: Memoir of a Chef.

I could list all the accolades, but what really got me was his story—it's one of the most intense and heartbreaking I’ve ever read. The kind of story that stops you in your tracks. We talk about all of it—the trauma he lived through, the discipline he built, and what it takes to truly be great at anything. If you're chasing excellence in any part of your life, this episode will hit hard.

Episode Description:

James sits down with acclaimed chef Curtis Duffy for a raw and powerful conversation that goes far beyond the kitchen. From the trauma of losing both parents in a murder-suicide to earning multiple Michelin stars, Duffy shares the personal and professional disciplines that shaped his life. This isn’t just a story about food—it’s about resilience, focus, and the high cost of mastery. Whether you're building a business, learning a craft, or rebuilding your life, Curtis’s story offers something rare: clarity on what it really takes.

What You’ll Learn:

The difference between discipline and motivation—and why only one sustains greatness.
How Curtis transformed personal tragedy into a lifelong drive for excellence.
What separates a 2-star Michelin restaurant from a 3-star—and why consistency matters more than you think.
Practical ways to develop expertise, even in everyday tasks (like boiling an egg).
The importance of emotional control and quiet leadership in high-pressure environments.

Timestamped Chapters:

[00:00] Intro: Why Curtis Duffy’s story matters
[01:45] Chef vs. metalhead: Black Sabbath and personal intensity
[04:50] The family tragedy that shaped everything
[10:30] Processing the unimaginable: police, negotiation, and aftermath
[13:00] What Curtis wishes he had heard from his mother
[15:45] Breaking the cycle of abuse
[19:00] Leadership in the kitchen: discipline, not yelling
[22:00] Hiring red flags and building the right team
[26:00] The value of obsession and sacrifice
[30:00] Curtis’s first spark of culinary creativity
[32:00] What makes great chefs great
[34:00] The science of boiling an egg—and why it matters
[36:30] Developing "chunks" of expertise over decades
[38:00] Talent vs. skill: what really wins
[41:00] The role of discipline and why most people stop short
[43:00] Going from chef to restaurateur and media personality
[47:30] The pressure of competition shows vs. real kitchens
[49:00] How to train consistency into a restaurant culture
[52:00] Where restaurants are headed next
[53:00] James gets BLT advice from a Michelin-starred chef
[56:00] What makes a perfect baguette—and why most are awful
[58:00] Final thoughts and how to connect with Curtis

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