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Jul 9
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Sex-drives, prenups and the four C’s for...

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About this episode

Louise and Ryan have a vulnerable conversation about communication and chemistry this week, as Ryan takes us through the four C’s for a fulfilling relationship.


In this episode, Louise and Ryan unpack why people have affairs, how to navigate differing sex-drives in a relationship and share their thoughts on prenups - and whether they’d ever sign one…


Plus, the pair answer a listener's submission: She Said “Is he the perfect guy?!”.


Send your voice memos or stories to hesaidshesaid@astridpodcasts.co.uk for Louise and Ryan to address your dilemma on the show.


Follow @hesaid.shesaid.podcast, @louise.thompson and @ryan.libbey


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Artwork by @brittyflynn 

Production by Astrid


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