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Jun 29
50m 9s

Britain’s Oldest Dominatrix: “It’s far m...

Alex Light & Em Clarkson
About this episode

Today, we're stepping into the world of BDSM...


We’re joined by the brilliant Sherry Lever, who is known professionally as Mistress Sofia. She is a 74-year-old grandmother who just so happens to be Britain’s oldest professional dominatrix.


From the outside, the world of BDSM might seem intimidating… and we certainly had a lot to learn. But Sherry breaks down the myths for us, highlighting the importance of communication, consent and boundaries within her work, to reveal the more emotional side of being a dominatrix.


She even introduced us to a very different kind of CBT (and it’s not the type your therapist offers...)


As self-confessed members of the vanilla population, we came away from this conversation with our eyes opened and our assumptions challenged - we hope you find it as fascinating as we did!


Follow @sherry_lever_ on Instagram 


You can read more about Sherry’s work at www.mistress-sofia.co.uk 


Sherry’s book From “The Mrs” to Dominatrix - is available now digitally and as an audiobook


If you'd like to get in touch you can email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com 

 

JOIN US FOR OUR BIGGEST LIVE SHOW EVER! We’re heading to Edinburgh for our biggest live show ever. We’ll be taking over the iconic Usher Hall for one night only on 3rd September. Head to SIDTLive.com for more information and to purchase tickets.


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Should I Delete That is produced by Faye Lawrence

Studio Manager: Dex Roy

Video Editor: Celia Gomez

Social Media Manager: Sarah English

Music: Alex Andrew


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