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Jun 26
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#369 Stephen Ridley - Radical Reinventio...

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Stephen Ridley is a professional pianist who has performed in dozens of countries. He shares the deeply personal journey that led him away from a high-powered banking career towards a life of creativity and authenticity. From the early days of musical training to the devastating loss of his father, Stephen recounts the key moments that shaped his path. He talks about overcoming fears, the joy of street performance, and the freedom found in following one’s passion. For the first time, he also publicly shares the story of his kidnapping in Brazil.


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Timestamps:

(00:00) Introduction

(00:50) Stephen Ridley's Musical Journey Begins

(02:28) Formal Training and Losing Passion

(03:38) A Turning Point: The Loss of a Father

(06:13) Complex Relationship with His Father

(15:16) Struggles and Determination

(17:31) The Banking Career and Realization

(29:11) The Decision to Leave Banking

(32:50) A Life-Changing Moment

(33:38) Seeing the World with New Eyes

(34:24) Exploring New Opportunities

(34:37) First Major Decision

(35:25) The Adventure Begins

(36:05) Street Performance and Stage Fright

(37:14) Facing Fears and Finding Freedom

(39:18) The Turning Point

(41:47) From Street Performer to Global Musician

(49:48) The Power of Saying Yes

(54:20) Performing Around the World

(54:53) Cultural Reflections and Favourite Places

(57:48) Kidnapped in Brazil

(01:02:09) Arrival in Rio: First Impressions

(01:03:34) Meeting Eva: A New Connection

(01:04:11) Beach Volleyball and Brazilian Culture

(01:07:47) Night Out in the Favela

(01:08:40) Kidnapped in Rio

(01:15:46) Stockholm Syndrome and Escape

(01:24:58) Reunion with Eva

(01:29:10) Future Plans and Reflections

(01:29:18) Outro


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