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Jun 2025
1h 26m

Addressing The Crazy Wedding Theories!

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About this episode

The NEWLYWEDS are in the house and giving you the full wedding debrief—joined by Alisha and the iconic flower girl himself, Oli. From the emotional high to the unexpected post-wedding comedown, they’re spilling everything: why they skipped the honeymoon, how Cal blacked out (not for the reason you think), and what really went down after the big day. Remi opens up about changing her last name, crying on camera, and what she actually thinks is worth splurging on. Plus, Cal shares advice for grooms, what the day felt like through his eyes, and how they both realized that it’s not about perfection—it’s about the memories. p.s. join us next week for part 2 of the full wedding debrief!


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Wedding Vendor Acknowledgments:

Planning + Design + Floral: @jasonROARS of @theRHEEFINED

Venue: @BellaVistaEstateSB

Culinary + Bar: @24CarrotsCatering

Cake: @TheButterEnd

Day of Dresser: @WeddingFashionExpert

Bridal Beauty: @ErosMUA @HayleyHeckmann 

Photo: @NicoleIvanovPhoto

Cinema: @AmandaFilms_

Entertainment: @DartCollective

Social Content: @TheBTSBride

Event Rentals: @TownandCountry_EventRentals

Custom Draping + Chandeliers: @BellaVistaDesigns

Speciality Lighting: @GRoyPresents

Speciality Linens: @Luxe_Linen

Save The Dates: @TheKnotInvitations

Custom Invitations: @MadPieDesigns

Day of Stationary + Goods: @VelvetFoxDesigns

Calligraphy: @CalligKatrina

Audio Guestbook: @FeteFone

Wedding Party Beauty: @NARSissist

Wedding Party Attire: @FriarTux @HouseofCB

Espresso Cart: @AlwaysKindCoffeeCart

Pet Concierge: @PamperPetConcierge

Custom Neon Sign: @BriteLiteTribe

Photobooth: @Photomatica

After Party: @SeoulmatesLA @KingTanghulu_LA @Dominos @HabitBurgerandGrill

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