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Jun 18
17m 39s

Bittersweet Moment #225: Baffling Italia...

Expat, Repat, Travel, Rome, Seattle, Books, Art, Italy, Wonder
About this episode

Tiffany does not get Italian beach culture.

In this candid (and a bit heated) mini-episode, she wonders: what's the appeal of overcrowded beaches, endless rows of umbrellas and chaise longues as far as they eye can see, baking, inescapable heat, and dirty warm water that most people don't even swim in?

Why are Italians so obsessed with spending every free moment of summer here?

Tiffany doesn't have an answer. But maybe you do: write in to tell us your theory.

And don’t miss your chance to visit Rome with us, on our intimate Rome listener trip, coming up in October 2025. Find out all about it here, or email us for more information!

***Katy's sister Dana has recently been diagnosed with stage 4 agressive brain cancer. To help with the staggering medical costs—her specialist is outside her insurance network—as well of the costs of temporarily relocating to San Francsico for her treatments, please consider donating to her GoFundMe. Anything you can contribute will be extremely helpful. Thank you.***

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