logo
episode-header-image
Jun 2025
1h 23m

How to Nail the First Date Look

BETCHES MEDIA
About this episode
In this episode of U Up?, Jordana and Jared get cozy (Jordana’s new super soft tomato-knit top yes plz) and tackle the fine line between a compliment and a fashion read. “Comfortable” isn’t always a compliment! From decoding the art of dressing for a first date (hint: you only need one killer outfit) to unpacking the emotional baggage of co-parenting and ove ... Show More
Up next
Sep 4
Lauren Lapkus Has a Dating App Imposter
Lauren Lapkus joins Jordana and Jared to talk about dating actors, marriage, kids, and whether being good at acting makes someone too good at lying?? The three play red flag or deal breaker, asking Lauren on everything from an ex’s wedding dress to bad breath, Disney adults, and ... Show More
34m 12s
Sep 2
How Long Should Your Husband Wait to Remarry After You Die?
Jared shares about meeting his girlfriend’s friends, how he got questioned about his phone use, and how being in a relationship means meeting the friend group! Then J&J discuss how men really feel about losing a partner, how they would go about life after a partner’s death, how o ... Show More
1h 25m
Aug 28
How Do You Start Dating Again After Divorce?
Jordana and Jared watch a TikTok of a groom zip lining into his own wedding and debate whether a groom spending $24K is a major ICK. They then answer a question from a newly single mother who is nervous about dating again, and they call Jordana's mother! Jordana's mom is a gyneco ... Show More
40m 57s
Recommended Episodes
Feb 2020
The First Date Debate
Dean and Jared are solving your dating conundrums. Are first dates actually fun or just awkward and painful?  How do you deal with a guy that is constantly sending mixed signals? What’s the best way to handle a love affair at the office?Sucking it up and sucking less, we are Solv ... Show More
57m 57s
Jul 2024
2 Be Better Podcast - Red and Green flags. A conversation piece
In this episode we dive into the complexities of dating and relationships. We discuss red flags to watch out for on first dates, from negative attitudes to excessive phone use. Balancing the conversation, we also highlight green flags, such as respect and genuine interest. With h ... Show More
1h 20m
Jul 2021
A Nice Ring to It
<p>What are you supposed to do on a first date?? The eternal question. Jared shares some helpful tips to make your next first date memorable!</p><p><br></p><p>Relationship coach Dr. Nicole LaBeach reveals the signs to know you’re in a healthy relationship. This is CRUCIAL informa ... Show More
57m 40s
Oct 2023
Hack Your Dating Life w/ U Up?
Does dating ever feel like a second job? You’re not alone. Today, Jordana Abraham and Jared Freid of the popular U Up? podcast share tips to hack your dating life so you can make genuine connections while enjoying the process. Known for reading between the lines and giving their ... Show More
43m 36s
Dec 2023
Signs of Attraction vs. Genuine Interest
Jordyn answers questions from her listeners about relationships, making the first move, work-life balance, and being an influencer. She advises listeners on how to tell if someone is only physically attracted to them or genuinely interested, shares her own experiences with meetin ... Show More
19m 33s
Dec 2023
Crash Course in Lesbian Dating with Jordan Harvey
We got your dating questions... and Jordan Harvey is here to answer them! Jordan and Mal sit down to chat about the intricacies of dating women for the first time and the questions that come up - how do I figure out what my type is? Who makes the first move? Who pays for the date ... Show More
34m 19s
Jan 2023
Episode 144: Pregame - Leave 'em Wanting More
On this week's Pregame episode of the Calm Down Podcast, Erin and Charissa answer your questions, starting with a little advice on why it's always best to practice hair honesty, what makes a good first date outfit, if we all have the right to recline, and more! See omnystudio.com ... Show More
11m 11s
Aug 2020
"Why Do Men Think This Is Ok?" feat. Jared Freid and Jordana Abraham
We're once again analyzing confusing dating situations and male behavior with some of the best in the game -- Jared Freid and Jordana Abraham of U Up? podcast. We discuss a guy refusing to commit after a year of dating, "dealbreaker" behavior from your boyfriend's mom and how to ... Show More
1h 16m