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Jun 2025
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dancing with the devil part 2: the retur...

Mollie Adler
About this episode

This is Part Two of a two-part series. In Part One, we talked about what it feels like to override your gut instinct and confuse danger with connection. We became conscious of the pattern, and I shared a story I’ve never told before about a night I ignored every warning sign and walked straight into a situation that could’ve ended very differently. If episode one traced the descent, this one marks the return


In this episode, we’ll talk about what it actually takes to stop repeating these patterns. And we won’t do it by coping, reading more self-help books or manifestation hacks, but by growing the fuck up — psychologically, emotionally, and archetypally. This means understanding what the Maiden archetype is, how it shows up in our culture, and why so many women stay stuck there way past the point they were meant to.


We dig into what it means to shift from Maiden to Mother from a consciousness perspective. The Maiden is all about being wanted, chosen, and admired. The Mother holds boundaries, sees patterns, and protects life — including her own. You don’t have to be a parent to step into that role. But you do have to let a part of you die so something more grounded can take its place.


Here’s what we get into:


  • What it really means to grow up (and why most people delay it for years)
  • How the Maiden archetype shapes everything from pop culture to dating to “healing” trends
  • Why staying psychically stuck in maidenhood becomes exhausting, not empowering
  • The difference between chronological age and psychological maturity
  • How the culture seduces you into staying adolescent, because that version of you is easier to market
  • How face the reality of the toll staying arrested in the archetype of the Maiden has taken on your voice, energy, and sense of reality
  • What a conscious severance from this archetype looks like (ritual, grief, and real goodbye)
  • How your inner Maiden can become an ally instead of a saboteur when you integrate her
  • What it means to step into the archetypal role of the Mother, and why our world is starving for that presence
  • A final invocation to the younger self, the daughter, and the part of you that already knows this shift is overdue


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