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May 2025
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How to Spot the Legalism Hiding in “Godl...

BETHANY BEAL AND KRISTEN CLARK
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Is it possible to pursue godly femininity without getting tangled in legalism, fear, or performance-driven faith? 

In this eye-opening episode, I sit down with best-selling author and speaker Leslie Ludy to unpack the subtle (and sometimes not-so-subtle) ways legalism can creep into conservative Christian womanhood.

We talk about the pressure to "look the part," the danger of equating holiness with a lifestyle checklist, and how to break free from rule-based faith and walk in true intimacy with Christ. 

Whether you’ve felt burdened by expectations or just want to cultivate a deeper, more authentic relationship with Jesus, this conversation will challenge, encourage, and refresh your soul.

Get ready for a grace-filled reset on what it really means to be a set-apart woman.

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