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May 26
21m 14s

💎 Stop the SHINY Objection syndrome

Erika Cramer
About this episode

Let’s talk about it.

You’re ambitious. You’re multi-passionate. You’ve got vision for days.

And because of that, you might be sabotaging your success without even knowing it.

In this episode, I’m breaking down what shiny object syndrome really looks like for high-achieving women, and why it’s killing your confidence, confusing your audience, and slowing down your business growth.

If you’ve ever said “I want to do it all,”

If you’ve launched 10 things and mastered none,

If you’re building but feel scattered, stretched, and stuck…

This episode is your permission slip to stop doing the most and start doing what matters.

You’ll hear the truth about focus, discipline, mastery, and how to build your business (and legacy) one solid step at a time.

Because all those sexy future visions?

They don’t come from doing more.

They come from going deeper.

🎧 Tune in and let’s reset your focus, Queen.

📍Ready to stop sabotaging and start showing up with confidence?

Watch my free Business Is Personal training here:

https://thequeenofconfidence.com/businessispersonal/

🔥 Or if you’re done playing small and ready for coaching, community, and next-level growth, join us inside The Next Level:

https://thequeenofconfidence.com/nextlevel/

And if this hit you in the gut (in the best way), tag me on Instagram @thequeenofconfidence and tell me what landed.

I’m cheering for you, always Queen.

Chapter breakdown:

00:00 Welcome from the Past, Present & Future

02:12 Bad Bunny Stress + VIP Tickets Saga

04:16 Puerto Rico Tour Reflections

05:40 The Real Problem with Shiny Object Syndrome

07:01 Being Multi-Passionate Is Not the Issue

08:38 Why Focus Is the Key to Success

10:19 Stop Acting Like You're on Chapter 75

11:54 How I Built My Business with One Offer

13:06 You Can’t Teach What You Haven’t Mastered

14:22 The Discipline to Stick With It

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