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May 25
40m 52s

Bonus Episode: Becoming the Artist of Yo...

Aileen Xu
About this episode
What does it really take to create your dream life? In this episode, Erika interviews Aileen about the story behind her success—from feeling invisible to inspiring millions through her creativity. They talk identity shifts, getting zero views, and staying true to your dreams—even when no one else sees the vision yet. If you’ve ever felt unseen, this conversation is your reminder: you can always become the artist of your own life. 

Erika Casupanan is a media personality, keynote speaker and host of the award-winning podcast, Happy to See Me. She was the first Canadian to win the U.S. reality show Survivor. She uses her platform to spotlight and inspire people who have felt overlooked and underestimated.


TIMESTAMPS

0:00 - Hair Color as Identity
5:08 - Feeling Underestimated
7:35 - Breaking the Praise Cycle
11:59 - From Music to Self-Love
17:05 - The Early Days of Lavendaire
19:47 - The Pressure of Social Media Metrics
21:55 - Staying Neutral Through the Ups and Downs
24:10 - Moments That Made It All Worth It
27:26 - Living as an Artist of Life
32:15 - Listening to Your Intuition
34:36 - Human Design
36:20 - The Key Questions Aileen Asked Herself
38.22 - Last Message

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