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May 2025
22m 29s

Q&A: 5 Odd Answers To Tough Questions #4...

KIRK MARTIN
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How do you motivate kids to do tasks without reminding them 18 times...or do uncomfortable things without arguing every single day? What should you do when a child defies you, disregards your instructions, doesn't do school work or go to sports practice? Should you force your teenager to go on family vacation? Kirk's answers may surprise you and give you ide ... Show More
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