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May 2025
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363: What if you dedicated your life to ...

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Dedicated to eradicating human trafficking, a purpose-driven young man's world is shattered by a politician's unwarranted lawsuit, destroying his reputation and forcing him to find a new path forward.

 

Today’s episode featured Raymond Bechard. If you’d like to reach out to Ray, please email him at RaymondBechard@gmail.com. You can also find him here: Contact Raymond


For Raymond’s Socials & a link to his book: https://linktr.ee/daggerwingmedia

His book: "The Berlin Turnpike: A True Story of Human Trafficking in America"

 


Producers: Whit Missildine, Andrew Waits, Sara Marinelli

 

Content/Trigger Warnings: divorce, depression, suicide, human trafficking, sex trafficking, sex work, poverty, disease/childhood death, lawsuit, explicit language

 

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Intro Music: “Sleep Paralysis” - Scott Velasquez

Music Bed: Union Flow

 

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