"Sometimes it's easier to find and access your truth through 'pretend' characters. So I had this embarrassment of riches of this true story but in my heart, I was like, 'I totally get to tell my truth!'… So my advice is find a way to do it, and if you have to do a mind trick by saying, 'I'm writing this pretend character' that's fine, but put all the stuff that's real to you into that pretend character, because I find there is an immense amount of freedom in being able to write through these characters because they aren't exactly my family, they are pieces of them. Writing your truth is possibly the scariest thing, but your truth only belongs to you, you are the person who experienced it in the exact way you experienced it. Know that you are giving a great gift to the world by doing it," says Liz Maccie, screenwriter for the new film Nonnas, about how to make someone else's story personal to you.
On today's episode we chat with Nonnas screenwriter Liz Maccie and director Stephen Chbosky about turning this true story into a heartfelt movie about a man who risks everything to honor his late mother by opening an Italian restaurant with actual grandmothers as the chefs.
Maccie and Chbosky, a real-life married couple, talk about their own families and how they were able to put pieces of themselves on the screen. They discuss the hilarious Nonnas' food fight scene and how to balance grief with humor in the writing.
"I feel that the other side of grief is hope," says Maccie, adding, "Because I have lost so much of my family, sometimes you're drowning in the grief. Then you have that moment when you suddenly feel that spark of hope again… we are all going to lose someone, even losing a pet. When we love something, someone and it goes away it's a devastating feeling and I think that connects us."
Chbosky shared this advice for writers:
"The one bit of solace or encouragement that any writer of any age can find is that sometimes, the more specific you write about your experience the more universal the script and the movie is… I really am a humanist at heart. I believe in using this art form to find ways to unify people, inspire them and certainly give them hope, put on their shoes and go at it the next day, I just think that when you write about your own personal experience it can lead to great things. And it doesn't mean that it has to be a dramedy or comedy, it could be horror, it could be sci-fi, it could be any genre that you feel as long as it is specific to you.".
To hear more, listen to the podcast. Nonnas is currently streaming on Netflix.