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Apr 2025
21m 16s

Can Women Make the First Move?

Christian Bevere
About this episode

Will he or won't he?! The battle of waiting to finding out if he is going to ask you out. It's led some to wonder if women can make the first move. Let's chat about that and these topics:

•The difference in showing interest vs. initiating
•Who should make the first move?
•What to do if a guy is being slow or shy to ask you out.
•How to show your available without coming across as desperate.

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