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Apr 2025
39m 28s

the ethically non-monogamous marriage

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Helloooo!   Today’s secret sharer is dabbling in ethical non-monogamy; her husband is fine with it, too. But what happens when you start a fling at work… with a younger, extremely hot co-worker? We also polled the wider shooshie community on their experiences in ENM relationships. What were the best parts, the challenges, and the non-negotiables?   Big tha ... Show More
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