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Apr 20
20m 15s

How to Find Good Guys on Apps

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Dating apps for Muslims require a completely different approach than what most women are taught.

Today, we explore why apps should be a brief stopping point rather than a destination—and how to avoid the common mistakes that keep quality matches away while draining your emotional resources.

- Staying on apps too long is emotionally dangerous and a time suck

- Men don't treat women the same when they appear unprotected on apps

- Most women unknowingly project the wrong energy and turn good men away


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TIMESTAMPS

00:00:00 - 00:00:14: Introduction

00:00:27 - 00:00:44: How dating apps should be used

00:02:31 - 00:03:00: Mistake of staying on apps too long

00:03:53 - 00:04:03: Community stigma around mental health and special needs

00:05:42 - 00:06:00: Success story

00:07:42 - 00:08:00: Overcoming fear

00:09:01 - 00:09:12: Powerful women and the challenges they face in attracting men

00:10:54 - 00:11:30: What pushes men away

00:12:45 - 00:13:00: Challenges faced by women when their parents are not on the same page

00:14:36 - 00:15:00: Feelings of being unlovable

00:18:33 - 00:19:00: Transform the approach to using apps


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