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Apr 2025
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How To Deal With Difficult Emotions, Dif...

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Cross-training for your mind.

Diane Musho Hamilton is an author, award-winning mediator, and teacher of Zen. She is the author of three books on conflict resolution, relationships, and communication. Her latest book is Waking Up and Growing Up: Spiritual Cross-training for an Evolving World, co-authored with Gabriel Wilson.

Diane is one of many great teachers featured on Waking Up, a top-notch meditation app with amazing teachers and a ton of courses for all levels. If you subscribe via this link: wakingup.com/tenpercent, you’ll get a 30-day free trial—and you’ll be supporting the 10% Happier team, too. Full and partial scholarships are available.

In this episode we talk about:

  • What Diane means by spiritual cross training and waking up 
  • Cultivating emotional maturity
  • Foundations of Zen practice
  • Integrating shadow and psyche
  • The key aspects of living with purpose 
  • The value of intention setting
  • Ethical action and community

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