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Jan 2025
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I sold my house, quit my job, broke up w...

sarah pan
About this episode

the tea is piping hot today! today we're bringing you a long overdue advice column where we talk all things relationship, life, and career based on submissions from our wonderful soju shotties (shawties). get ready for an hour of riveting discussion and maybe even a cameo from our pawducer. have a lovely soju friday! :)


today's specialty drink on the menu: red wine


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(00:00:00) intro

(00:07:34) i sold my house, quit my job...

(00:23:10) relationship breaks

(00:32:18) unsupportive friends

(00:43:03) committing to *one* interest

(00:55:39) my partner is depressed

(01:03:55) bloopers

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