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Apr 2025
54m 50s

Hard Work Isn’t Enough—You Have to Manag...

Kwame Christian Esq., M.A.
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Managing up is not about flattery. It’s about influence, and taking control of your career before someone else does. Order Now the Book: Managing Up: How to Get What You Need from the People in Charge In this episode, Melody Wilding—executive coach, professor, and author of Managing Up—joins Kwame to unpack one of the most overlooked (and misunderstood) ca ... Show More
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