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Mar 2025
26m 24s

Maybe you aren’t submissive, what now?

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About this episode
Today’s episode is inspired by someone who is new to phone sex and stumbled across the LDW Enchantrix Empire of adult sites. He sent an email to Ms Erika asking if he can still do a call if he’s not submissive. 

That’s a great question! 


It’s true that most of the LDW sites have a Femdom focus. The Weekly Hot Spot podcast concentrates on BDSM, kink, feminization, and things like sissy training. 

But, do you have to be submissive to call us?  The short answer is no but that answer is too short for a full podcast episode so the hosts discuss talking with people who simply call for an intimate conversation with a smart, beautiful woman.

Did you know that one of the most popular LDW sites is called VoxErotic? That means Voice Erotic or sexy voices. Which we do have no matter what we’re talking about.

Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika almost take for granted that our most popular skill set includes things like being an engaging, well-rounded conversationalist. Even those who identify as submissive for the erotic roleplay don’t want to be the sub for the conversation after the play.


This is a look behind the scenes of what we do and how we do it. Candid conversation, funny stories of epic sex fails and ideas for your future call with us. Speaking of joking around about sex ... remeber sex doesn’t need to be all serious all the time - it’s fun to be frisky with friends without the Femdom focus.

Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress

Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
Vox Erotic
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