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When life shatters in unimaginable ways, how do we hold on to hope and grace? How do we move forward when we are the ones who made the mistake?

In this profoundly moving episode, Catherine explores a story that speaks to the heart of every parent and believer. Jennifer Eikenhorst—a devoted mother, teacher, and woman of faith—shares the day that changed her life forever. A simple left turn resulted in a tragic accident, taking the life of an innocent man. As she faced the crushing weight of grief, guilt, and endless "whys," Jen discovered a truth that is essential for all of us: God will meet us in our deepest shame, but we must choose Him.

Mistakes are inevitable. Some are small, and others change lives forever. No one escapes the reality of human error. But in these moments, we face a choice: to live in condemnation or receive the grace that God freely gives. Through raw honesty, Jen shares her journey of surrender—how she learned to accept God's mercy, extend grace to herself, and become a vessel of healing for others. As the host of the Accidental Hope podcast and an advisor in the Hyacinth Fellowship, Jen now ministers those affected by accidental injury and death find restoration and faith.

Universal Takeaways for Parents & Believers

🔹 God Will Heal Us, But We Must Choose Him: Shame isolates, but grace restores. No matter how deep the mistake, we must turn to God to receive healing.
🔹 How to Teach Our Children About Grace and Responsibility: Kids will make mistakes—some big, some small. How we respond teaches them whether failure will define them or faith will transform them.
🔹 The Weight of 'Why' and the Power of 'Who': We may never understand the "why" behind certain tragedies, but we can cling to who walks with us through them.
🔹 Receiving and Extending Grace: Just as we long for mercy, we are called to extend it—to ourselves and to others who have made costly mistakes.
🔹 Creating a Culture of Refuge: The biblical cities of refuge provided safety for those who unintentionally caused harm. How can we create homes and communities where people find grace rather than judgment?

A Call to Reflection

What shame are you carrying that God is waiting to heal? Are you willing to release it and receive His grace? Who in your life needs to experience the refuge of forgiveness today?

Join Catherine and Jen in this unforgettable conversation about redemption, resilience, and the love of a God who meets us in our greatest shame—and transforms it into hope.

About the Guest: Jennifer Eikenhorst is a mother of four, teacher, and faith-driven speaker whose life was forever changed by a tragic accident. In the aftermath, she found purpose in sharing hope and healing with others facing accidental loss. As the author of Left Turn: Life Unimagined and host of the Accidental Hope podcast, Jen offers a compassionate space for those navigating grief and guilt. She also serves on the advisory council for the Hyacinth Fellowship, supporting those who have unintentionally caused harm. Her journey is a powerful testament to God’s grace, redemption, and the resilience of faith.

EPISODE RESOURCES:

Jen’s Website & Podcast

Jen’s Book: Left Turn: Life Unimagined

The Hyacinth Fellowship

What Happens When You Accidentally Take Someone’s Life” Red Table Talk w/ Jada Pinkett Smith

What Were the Cities of Refuge in the Bible” (BibleAsk, 6/18/24)

What Were the Cities of Refuge in the Old Testament” (Got Questions)

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