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Mar 2025
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how to turn REJECTION into GROWTH: the b...

Brianna Gomez
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Rejection is your SUPER POWER… The greatest form of revenge, is using rejection to FUEL your passion instead of putting it out. If you’ve felt rejected, you know how hard it can be to let go/forgive, or move on from the past. The truth about rejection, is it’s actually a GIFT once you learn how to REACT to it. In today’s episode of Hot and Unbothered, your host Brianna Gomez reveals the life changing perspective that will shift your controlling, anxious mindset to one of confidence and empowerment— even after rejection. Tune in to learn how to turn rejection into REDEMPTION and CLAIM YOUR POWER BACK.


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