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Mar 2025
1h 27m

65. the art of being yourself, finding y...

Julia Padavona
About this episode

Vanessa Fontana is a writer, podcast host, & storyteller dedicated to helping people navigate the messy, beautiful process of figuring sh!t out. With a background in business working at the forefront of AI, she left the corporate world to carve her own path - building a global audience through her podcast, Figuring Sh!t Out, where she uses words, voice, and community to inspire deep self-inquiry and creative freedom. 


She draws inspiration from the energy contrasts of living with spiritual bones in New York City, weaving this duality into her work and business. 


She sits at the intersection of strategy and soul, helping twenty-somethings, creatives, and anyone on their journey of self-discovery and inner awakening create a safe space for themselves to align their vision and step into their fullest expression.


🌟 ABOUT THIS EPISODE


In this heartful conversation, Vanessa and Julia explore themes of self-actualization, creativity, and emotional expression — discussing the importance of connecting with one’s heart, embracing uncertainty, and the healing power of artistry.


It is of utmost importance to listen to our own inner voices, express our emotions honestly, and step into authenticity in a world that often encourages conformity.


We also discuss the importance of embracing change, rooting oneself in spirituality and practice, and recognizing the divine in everyday experiences. 


🪽 Takeaways 

  • Being connected to your heart is smart and hot. 
  • Embracing uncertainty  is essential for personal growth.
  • Healing involves acknowledging past pain and rediscovering your most authentic self. 
  • The journey of self-discovery is ongoing and requires patience.
  • Authenticity is a lifelong journey of learning and listening.
  • Allow old versions of yourself to die to make way for new growth.
  • Life is a continuous process of figuring sh!t out, regardless of age. 
  • God will never push himself on you; you must seek him. (God as the archetypal “perfect gentleman”)
  • Disconnection from oneself often leads to a perceived disconnection from God.
  • Alignment as an essential ingredient for creativity


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🎀 Chapters

02:49 building intuitive connection

06:41 the healing power of creativity

12:58 connecting with the heart and inner artist

18:03 the process of self-discovery and expression

24:14 navigating emotions and self-expression

30:11 stepping into your power and authenticity

36:08 embracing uncertainty and life's changes

39:09 finding God and spiritual connection

43:03 surrendering to god

46:54 experiencing divine connection: visions and revelations

52:32 understanding God beyond religion

56:19 the intangible nature of God: finding truth within

01:03:02 the path to self-discovery: embracing pain and love

01:07:13 aligning with purpose through daily rituals

01:19:32 the masculine-feminine dance




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